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Serious question about parents overly active love life. Mature answers only. Semi adult content?
Question : Serious question about parents overly active love life. Mature answers only. Semi adult content?
It all started when my parents bought a lot of lube and were discussing it in the grocery store while I was standing right there. Then my parents started buying lingerie while I was standing there. In the store. Then I almost walked in on my parents, I got to the point where I saw their underwear on the Ground with them moaning but thank goodness I didn’t see them. Fast forward 2 years. They have sex at least 3 times a week. My mom moans soooo loud, they leave their door open, kick my dog off of the bed, it is so nasty, I can hear it from downstairs. Last night I was fed up because I had gotten home from babysitting late, and I know my parents had sex while I was gone (3 hours) because I have to wash their lingerie and I know that they do because I called for a ride home once and my dad was panting in the background *yuck*. Well I have a huge problem with washing their lingerie. So I get home and say hello, and not 20 minutes later my mom is moaning again. I am so sick of it. I have done everything. Turn on the tv, radio, music, it doesn’t work. My mom is always saying that my dad turns her on so much. It is nasty, so nasty. Especially when my dad puts his hands down my mom’s pants in public.
I know that some of you are going to tell me that I am lucky to have parents who love each other so much. Yeah, but this is way over the top. Washing their lingerie and doing all of the other things is annoying. I want to tell them to shut up in the damn bed, but I don’t have the guts. Advice?
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Answer by Robel
This just gave me a hard ass boner..
Tell your mom to email me if she wants to get freaky.
She sounds like a nympho.
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#2 written by speedy 1 year ago
Well it sounds like you are mature enough to know that what they are doing is natural, But you having to do the lingerie is not right. You need to sit down with your parents and come up with some rules. Yes I said rules. Hay you have to abide by their rules don’t you ? They are your parents, I know, but you live there to. Let them know it bothers you and they should respect that and make plans a head of time when they want their ” Time alone ” For instance you were baby sitting for 3 hours. They had 3 hours to do their thing. They should have respected your right to come home to a normal living environment for a daughter of your age and stopped having ” Alone time ” and returned to normal family activities. They wouldn’t want you to have friends over, have a party and trash the house would they ? No sir they sure wouldn’t.. So sit with them and explain that there ” Alone time ” is causing you emotional issues and that there should be rules governing alone time when you are in the house. Like when you got home from baby sitting, or even when you called for a ride home. There should be a ” Plan B ” Like they give you extra cash and planned transportation and when you call and they need/want more time then you have the means to go do some other activity. Good luck.
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#3 written by Throggdor 1 year ago
The washing the lingerie thing is a little on the wrong side but so what they are your parents its their house…
More importantly do you want your love life to stop dead just because you have a kid… besides it could always be worse… you think your parents are bad just imagine your grandparents like that.
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#4 written by AW 1 year ago
Active sex life between 2 married adults of different gender is good and God ordained. But being discreet and refrain from exhibition of such private activities is show of consideration for other people. What you are experiencing is “rude” behaviours. Apostle Paul wrote that we should refrain from eating the kind of food in front of people who thinks is wrong to eat. If not, people will not respect us for who we represent. Legitimate sex is a form of Holy communion but over active sex life is exegerration and not of God’s. Child, since they are your parents, although love is wonderful, but rudeness is not a fruit of good spirit. You are not in any capacity to change things on your own. I would encourage that you pray to Jesus about how you feel. Be honest about your feelings (e.g. feeling belittled, anger, embarrassed). Jesus will always hear your prayers. You should know that Jesus will definitely help you to make all things good for you.
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#5 written by SpaldingJag 1 year ago
The next time you guys are all together, like at a meal or something, you should have a heart-to-heart talk with your parents about this. Let them know that you think it’s great that the love each other so much but at the same time ask that they show a little more discretion about their sex life when it comes to you. Let them know that their “love making” is embarrassing you some and that you would really appreciate it if they would make it more private. They may say that it’s none of your business but then you reply that by being so loud and outward about it they are making it your business and you’d appreciate a little more thoughtfulness on their end.
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#8 written by bushwacker_osk 1 year ago
Your young and don’t realize at this time that,one day you will be at the age that even if you kiss your husband your kids will say YUCK. Here is some help ,I hope.
Get some headphones,don’t look at the clothes as an inspector when you do laundry ,just the colors. Some people are loud during love making and for the most part it a uncontious thing.
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#9 written by Allyson B 1 year ago
This is natural and they are obviously a loving couple. Many women would love to be in your mom’s shoes in that she is making love often.
You should relax about nature. This is nature. In my opinion, it makes your parents beautiful, not yucky.
Don’t let this bother you. You should be happy for them.
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#10 written by Clairey 1 year ago
I think that you should talk to your mum on your own, and just explain to her that it wouldn’t bother you as much if they were a little more discreet about it and as for your dad doing things in public, that’s a bit inappropriate but it’s nice that they can still find each other attractive that way because a lot of parents don’t get anything at all and it makes them very grumpy!
You should tell your mum that you’re happy to help out with the washing but not with the washing of underwear and she should do that herself cos it’s not nice for you to have to do it…
I’m sure if you talk to your mum she will understand and probably be as embarrassed as you! And they shouldn’t be discussing it in front of you cos it’s not very nice… Ask her what she would feel like if she had to listen to her parents or even her friends! It would make anyone feel uncomfortable…
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#11 written by dozer 1 year ago
i think you should tell them you hear them and stuff maybe u should make them feel how you do beta still tel them in front of ur grandparents then they will feel like you about the situation
its gross they act like that yh it is nice they show affection 2 each other but not to the extent that there making a open air porn show -
#12 written by myaimistrue 1 year ago
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#13 written by Cameron 1 year ago
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I envy you, my parents never had sex between each other, but both have sex affairs outside home. Both excusing themselves never to come home almost everyday, having wild sex outside. Disgusting. You should feel lucky having parents still love each other. Sex is the fruits of love in a marriage. Only when you still love each other and find each other “hot” sexy and desirable, that would you want to have sex with.