Question : Ok, how do I persuade my mom to lift bedtime and curfew restrictions?
Ok, currently I’m a gay male but soon I intend to return to the hetereosexual community. I have a bf who both have a mutual friend Heather. My bf met Heather at his 4 year college/university. I met Heather in middle school but she moved away while we were both in high school because he father received Orders to transfer (He just retired from the military and they moved back!!). Actually, they’ve been back for awhile and they moved about 10-15 miles away from where I live. I met my bf over the Summer while we were both taking a class together at my 2-year community college. Suddenly we all realized that we had these common friendships when he and I were talking together about kids we knew from high school (he and I attended different high schools). He and I became sexually active with each other for the first time for both of us and I fell in love with him as I planted my seed in his lovely garden.

I really missed Heather and realize now after seeing her yesterday because the three of us had a “golf date” together (a date to play golf at a golf course using her golf clubs because he and I don’t have any golf clubs lol).

After seeing her again I fell madly in love with her. I’ve always been in love with her for that matter even from middle school. I was an overly effeminate boy who loved quiet activities and to read. She was a tomboy who took a liking to me. She protected me from some bullies in the school and even saved me once from becoming the victim of a sexual assault by these boys.

We dated in high school before she moved away and at the time did the driving because my parents would not let me get a license until I turned 18. She got her license at 16. I had an 11pm curfew and she always got me home in time. Usually my mom would go to bed after I arrived and since she did not have a curfew (her parents were more liberal then mine lol) she would stick around for awhile. We would kiss and make out on the couch and the feeling of sweetness and love while being held in her arms still gives me a thrill just thinking about it. She usually got home at 12 pm and I would call her cell phone just to confirm that she was safely home.

Anyway, yesterday Heather found out I still have a 11 pm curfew and a 10 pm mandatory bedtime during week nights and she said that is TOTALLY WEIRD!! that no 19 year old adult has those kind of restrictions. My bf does not even have restrictions and he’s only 18 lol lol.

Oh Heather and I were talking before on Messenger and she says that she plans to hook Jason (my bf) up with a really cute mutual friend ( a girl lol) and she wants both of us to stop the gay lifestyle. I promised her that Jason and I would refrain from any sexual activities. Oh, she’s a Christian lol lol.

How do I talk to my mom about the curfew and bedtime? She is really strict and does not care that I’m an adult. Both she and my dad know that I’m in a gay relationship and they were really lukewarm about the idea. Jason’s parents know too and they feel the same as my parents. Oh my parents are really glad that I’m back together (as friends only currently) with Heather. My mom thought she was a lovely girl.
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Answer by blondewithheart
If this question is for real, wow. TMI dude. You could have left the entire thing blank except the last paragraph. You are 19. How much do you parents support you…meaning do you have a job? If you are fully dependent on them, I’d say it’s only fair they have house rules. However I’d say that’s a strict curfew. I had very strict parents growing up, but as I had my own job and proved myself a responsple 18 year old, I could stay out until 1am, and when I started college (still living at home) I had my own job and had no curfew, but as I said, I proved to my parents they could trust me and I wasn’t out somewhere getting messed up. (Well maybe once or twice :o ) If you haven’t screwed up your trust with them by doing crazy teenage things, and you’ve been good overall so far- I’d just sit them down or at dinner, and ask them you want to re-think the curfew. You feel you are old enough and capable of handeling a curfew of ____ because you ____. If, however, you’ve violated their trust in some way or have otherwise been a little shi* I doubt they’ll listen.