My father in law wants to take $20,000 from our remortgage for co-signing the loan…?
Question : My father in law wants to take ,000 from our remortgage for co-signing the loan…?
When I got married my father in law co-signed for a house for my wife and I because she was 20 and didn’t have any credit and I had just come from the UK and hadn’t even got my SSN yet. Now 6 years later with us paying the mortgage and homeowners payments for the whole time we are looking to refinance to pull some money out to update the kitchen and bathrooms and he says he wants us to “buy him out” for $ 20,000 from the equity of the home. (We bought it for $ 69,000 and its now appraising around $ 120,000) We have paid around $ 40,000 in payments on the house over the 6 years and I feel like he is being greedy trying to profit on his kids. I don’t know how to approach the subject with him and my wife doesn’t want a rift with her parents over money. Her father is quite well off as a financial planner and makes probably $ 100k a year and her mom works too. Her father co-signed for her brother also but his house is in georgia and is worth less than what the paid for it so they don’t have to pay squat if they sell it. I need some advice on what to do about this. Its a very delicate situation and I need to approach it correctly.
uk homeowner loans
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Answer by liajewelry
Well, if he has never paid any of the payments – you shouldn’t have to ‘buy him out’. He himself has no equity in your home. He did not personally loan you money so you do not owe him anything. The bank required a co-signer just as someone to pay up if you did not pay the mortgage.
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All he did was co-sign on the loan which means that he was willing to guarantee that he would take over payments if you couldn’t. He doesn’t own any part of your house and has a heck of a lot of cheek asking you for $ 20,000 to buy him out. In the USA, that’s called “extortion” and would land a person in jail. Your father in law should know better.
SO, talk to your banker first and see if you & your wife can requalify for the loan without Dad’s signature. I bet she could also answer any question about the stunt dear old Dad is trying to pull. If you are still nervous about this, go see a real estate attorney and lay out the entire story. The attorney will help you set Dad straight.